The Invisible Work of Parenting a Neurodivergent Teen Through High School

Parenting a neurodivergent teen often means doing a lot of work no one else sees: researching, reminding, advocating, stepping in, and sometimes forcing yourself to step back. This post is about the constant question behind so much of that work: when does support help, and when does it get in the way of a teenager learning that they can handle hard things on their own?