Welcome to the NICU Support Blog.
compassionate guidance, practical explanations, and heartfelt encouragement for families navigating life in and after the NICU
When Your Baby Is in the NICU and Your Heart Is in Two Places
When your baby is in the NICU, your heart is often pulled between the hospital and home. This post gently explores the emotional weight of being in two places at once, and offers reassurance for parents navigating guilt, love, and impossible choices.
Understanding NICU Grief: Why It Shows Up Even When Your Baby Is Improving
Even when your baby is improving, grief can still surface. This post explores why NICU grief is real, common, and deeply human. And why feeling relief and sadness at the same time makes sense.
What to Say (and Not Say) to a Family With a Baby in the NICU
A compassionate guide on what to say and what not to say to families with a baby in the NICU. Learn how to offer real support without minimizing their experience.
Navigating the Holidays With a Baby in the NICU: A Parent’s Guide
Celebrating the holidays while your baby is in the NICU can be emotionally complex. This post provides support, perspective, and reassurance during a season that may feel uncertain.
The First 24 Hours in the NICU: A Parent’s Guide
When your baby is admitted to the NICU, the first 24 hours can feel like a blur of alarms, screens, and new information. This post helps you understand what the care team is monitoring — and what it means for your baby.
The Truth About Bottles & Nipple Flow Rates: What Parents Really Need to Know
Bottle feeding involves more than choosing a brand. This post explains nipple flow rates in plain language and helps parents understand how the right flow can support safer, more comfortable feeding.
The Heart of Healing: How Child Life Specialists Support Babies in the NICU
Child Life therapists play a vital role in supporting babies and families in the NICU. This post explains what Child Life does, how they support infants, parents, and siblings, and why their presence can make a meaningful difference during a NICU stay.
Common Lingo in the NICU: A Parent-Friendly Guide
The NICU comes with a language of its own, and hearing unfamiliar terms can feel overwhelming. This post breaks down common NICU lingo in clear, parent-friendly language so families can better understand what they’re hearing and ask questions with confidence.
The Power of Skin-to-Skin: Why Kangaroo Care Matters
Skin-to-skin care offers powerful benefits for babies and parents in the NICU, but it can also feel unfamiliar at first. This post explains why it matters, how it supports development and regulation, and how families can participate in ways that feel right for them.
NICU Monitors Explained: What All the Numbers Mean
NICU monitors provide constant information about your baby’s wellbeing, but the numbers and alarms can feel overwhelming. This post explains what the monitors track, what common alerts mean, and how the care team uses this information to keep your baby safe.
What can I bring to the NICU?
When your baby is in the NICU, even packing a bag can feel overwhelming. This post helps parents understand what items are typically allowed, what may bring comfort, and what’s best to leave at home.
The Power of Primary Nursing in the NICU
Primary nursing helps provide consistency and familiarity during a NICU stay. This post explains what primary nursing is, how it supports babies and families, and how parents can ask about this model of care for their child
Normalizing How Difficult Feeding Can Be in the NICU or other ICU Units
Feeding in the NICU is often far more complex than many parents expect. This post normalizes how challenging feeding can be, explains why progress isn’t always linear, and offers reassurance to families navigating this part of their baby’s care.
Who’s Who in the NICU: A Parent’s Guide
The NICU is filled with many professionals, each playing a specific role in your baby’s care. This post introduces the members of the NICU team and explains who they are, what they do, and how they support your baby and family. There is also a free download on the resource page.
What are rounds in the NICU?
NICU rounds are an important part of your baby’s daily care, but they can feel unfamiliar or intimidating at first. This post explains what rounds are, who is involved, and how families can feel more prepared and included.
Building Connection While Your Baby IS in the NICU
Building connection with your baby in the NICU can look different than many parents expect. This post explores meaningful ways families can connect, even within a medical setting, and offers reassurance that presence and intention matter.
Small Steps Matter
Progress in the NICU is often measured in small, meaningful steps rather than big milestones. This post explores why those small moments matter and how recognizing them can support families through the ups and downs of a NICU journey.
NICU, Here We Come
Hearing that your baby will be admitted to the NICU can bring fear, uncertainty, and a flood of questions. This post offers guidance on what to expect as you begin a NICU stay and reassurance that you don’t have to navigate it alone.
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